- By Demola Atobaba, Ado-Ekiti
Stakeholders across all spheres has called on politicians and government at all levels to as a matter or urgency create the Ministry of Men Affairs to in order to adequately put to an end the several issues affecting men in the society.
They observed that male children has been somehow neglected to do what they like in the society of nowadays, while parents focuses all attention mainly on girl-child.
One of them is the former ALGON Chairman in Ekiti State, Hon. Toba Adaramola who said that, this became necessary as men and boys in the country are being neglected to their fate without proper attention and care.
This observations was raised in Ado-Ekiti, the Ekiti State capital during the 2nd Lecture Series of Toba Adaramola Foundation with the theme: “21st Century Gender Challenges”.
Various papers were presented at the event by Professor of Sociology at the Ekiti State University, (EKSU) Prof. Christopher Oluwadare, President of Ekiti State Customary Court of Appeal, Justice Monisade Abodunde and former EKSU Registrar, Dr. Omojola Awosusi.
Said he: “All government activities are geared towards girl child gender equality, nobody is talking about the men and they will say what you don’t value will eventually become a problem for you, okay their attention to the girl child going to school but no attention is given to the boy child.
“They are the ones that are into commercial motorcycling. How many of our ladies are seen doing Okada work in this place?
“After their education, these ladies come back looking for husband, where will the husband be when they are not educated? So these are some of the things that we are looking at and we say, let us arrange it. It is not as if the men are not having issues, there is nobody that you will call that will not tell you that he is having issues”.
Hon. Adaramola, a Public Relations expert in the state, stated that his recommendation was not a matter of rivalry but a necessity further said.
“I advocated in my presentation that there is need for government at all levels to create the Ministry of Men and Boys affairs to cater for men folk as they are doing for the ladies in the women affairs.”
“How many ladies are doing yahoo-yahoo (internet fraud)? Majority of them are in school studying but boys are busy looking for money. So these are some of the things that we need to address and then to balance the equation and if they are not addressed, I am afraid there is problem.”
It is a general issue that affects everyone, we will continue to be doing this on issues that bother on us and that may really affect us, so that the government will come up with a policy through our recommendations at this gathering, that this was exactly what people said; then we submit it to the governor”.
The convener of the lecture series revealed that a communique that will be issued at end of the event will be forwarded to the governor, the State House of Assembly, saying “if we can get it to the national, Ekiti State can give light to the entire country”.
He stated that action plans have been put in place to ensure the effectiveness of the proposal. “The first thing is for us to keep government informed.
As a matter of fact, the office of the First Lady is aware of the gathering, that is why she sent the gender desk officer. The Police, Civil Defence, DSS are all aware of it, that is why their representatives are all here. We also collaborated with the National Human Right Commission”.
He said if the state government buys into the recommendation, Ekiti can be the pilot state and could be replicated at the federal level “Today, men are suffering deprivation, neglect and depression.
The people always advocate for women but nobody is raising voice for men and they are the bread winners, so these are some of the things the Ministry of Men Affairs are to look into.
It is not a matter of competition but to balance the situation so that Nigeria will move forward,” he saidProf. Oluwadare in his lecture titled: “On the road to marity: Planting the seed of social hypo gamy” called for specify public policy and programmes to address the peculiar medical, sexual and demographic needs of men.
For Justice Abodunde in her presentation, “The roles of men in women development in the 21st century”, she outlined education, sound policies and legislation, being supportive, women in leadership, ending harmful practices among other as parts of what men should be doing to ensure women development.
Dr. Awosusi, who spoke on “21st century men: challenges, expectations and prospects”, said a lot have changed about men in the 21st which should be a source of concern to present and incoming generations.
