“My conversation with Tope Alabi in the heat of “Oniduro” controversy”
By Michael West
Initially, I didn’t want to delve into the controversy over the gospel hit song,“Oniduro,” because I have intervened behind the scenes in concert with other stakeholders in gospel music ministry. However, I discovered that online media would not allow the dust to settle calmly.
I want to state that Tope Alabi, Adeyinka Adesioye a.k.a Alaseyori, and Tolu Adelegan are all members of the same family of God and they belong to the same calling – singing ministry.
They all profess to hear, receive, and be led by the Holy Spirit. Until now, I didn’t know about Tolu Adelegan who is based in my hometown, Akure, Ondo State. She’s the original composer of the hit song in 2014.
I know Alaseyori faintly not because she popularised “Oniduro” song but because of her “Aye Ope Yo” (There’re reasons for thanksgiving) track. The song is original, inspirational, and powerfully rendered.
It is one of the most popular Yoruba songs on social media for birthday celebrations. Other Yoruba songs commonly used for celebrations include Wasiu Ayinde’s “Ade Ori Okin,” “Oniduro” and Tope Alabi’s “Lati Inu Oyun” among others.
The genesis of the brouhaha is traceable to talented Tope Alabi’s revelational talk during a live show where she said she received a divine instruction not to sing “Oniduro” because God, to her, is way more than “Oniduro” which literally translates to mean “The Guarantor.”
The more reason she should not have made it public. Personal messages are strictly personal. I don’t want to align with those who are insinuating that Tope acted out of sheer envy. Some said she felt threatened. I do not agree with that opinion at all. There’s no basis for Tope to feel threatened by Alaseyori. That’s unthinkable.
“Adeyinka is my daughter in ministry. Her Pastor asked me to pray for her because she took after me, which I did wholeheartedly. Envy who? Never! I love the girl so much. She can confirm to you, sir, that we relate so well. God has given each of us the grace to go as far as His enablement could carry us. The atmosphere is wide enough for everyone to stretch her wings of gift without disturbing one another.”
Tope Alabi: The mistake I made
Tope spoke with me Tuesday evening and it was hot. I was harsh on her because the controversy was needless and avoidable in the first place. She was overwhelmed with calls, messages and, in fact, at some point, she asked “Uncle Mike, do you want me to run mad?
Will you be happy if I die of a heart attack because of this matter? You, too, have acknowledged in your voice note that I would be under intense pressure. I’m being bombarded with calls and visits by pastors since Monday morning till now. As we speak, another group of Pastors is coming in now. I guess it is because of this same issue. Uncle, you’re too harsh on me. You know me better than many people around me today, being my big brother.
“I have been inundated with diverse counsel from different quarters. I hardly sleep since this matter started. While I attend to Nigerian fans on phone calls and online chats in the daytime, our people in the Diaspora will engage me throughout the greater part of the night over the same matter.
“I feel safer talking with you Egbon mi. You will understand me better than those who
don’t know me closely. I’m not a perfect person yet, I’m still a work in progress in the hands of God. I want people to see me as a mere mortal with my own weaknesses, human frailties and as a learner in the limitless knowledge of God.
“I am who I am today only by the mercy of God and the support of millions of gospel music lovers. I have no support base
elsewhere outside the awesome Nigerians who feel uncomfortable with my statement. I see the depth of anger as the measure of their love, admiration, and solid support for me and for all of us in the singing ministry.
“Let me acknowledge that my mistake was that I externalised a personal message in public, and I’m awfully sorry for doing that. My friends, colleagues, and leaders in ministry who criticized me either openly or
privately simply feel disappointed because of the love we share. We are too knitted in the Body of Christ to allow anything to divide us. The human factor is part of our life.
“For those who keep quiet but chose to intercede for us on their knees instead, may God honour them all. And for those who defended me even without speaking with me, I can’t appreciate them enough. Egbon Michael, those hosting live shows on social media are my strong fans.
“Most, if not all of them have been playing my music for years without paying them for the free adverts. I don’t begrudge them for their diatribes over the matter. I love them so much. We can’t do without one another. I value them greatly.
“Sir, I will get back to the public soon. Sister Tolu Adelegan is a woman I hold in high esteem. Adeyinka, as I said earlier, is my daughter in ministry, they are all valuable sisters and associates that nothing can separate us. This is a mere fog, it will fade away in no time.
“For the comic fellows who are already releasing comedy skits over the matter, I burst into laughter (she laughed again) watching some today. What creative people we are. Nigerians are awesome minds who will fashion out tension-relieving stuff from every situation.
“Sir, I appreciate them all. The Bible says in Hebrew 12: 14 that we should pursue peace with everybody and holiness, those are the conditions for us to see God. This is the acceptable path for all of us to follow. Egbon mi, I thank you, sir.”
Let me acknowledge that my mistake was that I externalised a personal message in public; I’m awfully sorry for doing that- Tope Alabi